3 things I love about living in Cambodia

Life here in small town Kampot, Cambodia has been good so far, and I feel very fortunate to live here. The longer we live here the more I love it. There is a way of life that I haven’t found elsewhere, one that seems to really jive with my spirit. These last few days I have found myself thinking about why I really love living here, the small things that make every day awesome. I’ll likely continue to update these as I think of them, but for now here are 3 things that I really appreciate on a daily basis.
1. No more mail!!
Let me explain… I still clearly remember the days when I had to pick up the mail… mostly bills and advertisements. The moment of joy from mail were definitely outnumbered by the moments of slight annoyance coinciding with receiving bills and feeling the pressure of having to pay for those bills. Not so much because there wasn’t any money to pay for them, more so from the feeling that it was yet another thing in the list of things to do. It felt like life revolved around a series of tasks, the list never ending. Aside from bills, most of the mail was advertisements for all sorts of companies, catalogs and promotional pamphlets. Don’t get me wrong, I like perusing through catalogs, staring at pictures and dreaming with the Ikea catalog in hand as much, or maybe more, than the next person, but I could never quite get over how much paper was being wasted to print all these shiny pictures. Do we really need all these delivered to our mail boxes every day? Has our desire to consume grown so strong that it necessitates all these printed papers to tell us what to buy, where and when?
Living here in Cambodia has drastically cut down on how much of this media I consume. Not to mention the stress that has disappeared once the whole system of bill delivery was eradicated from my life. Now, if we really need to receive something I have it delivered to a general PO box in town. When something arrives (and in the four years we’ve lived here it has only happened 3 times) the nice lady from the post office calls me at home to tell me that there is something waiting, and if I am busy she will send it to my house on a moto taxi for a small fee of 50 cents or so. Oh yes, I should also mention that when I do receive these special packages now, they are always much wanted, as they bring news and small goods from my mom.
2. No more watch wearing!!
It’s true, after wearing a watch for many years, always checking it, living life by the clock, I am thrilled to never wear a watch any more. It seems like life moves at a different pace when everything revolves around the right moment, rather than this ultimate need to hurry from point A to point B. Again, don’t me wrong – I have a job I have to be at. What I don’t have however, is this ubiquitous reminder that I have to do this at such and such a time, and place, that I have to hurry, that I will miss the bus in if don’t make it to the station in two minutes. I have a old skool Nokia cell phone that does the job. Most of the time it’s on silent and I call people back when I have a chance. My life is no longer dictated by how many minutes till the next ‘task’ and by counting down the minutes till I would be late. As a little aside here, this old Nokia phone I have is the best thing in the world. It is resistant to water, as I have found out on numerous occasions when my son has decided to dunk it in water just to see what the light looks like underwater. Phone has gone swimming? Easy.. just take out the battery and leave it in a bag of rice for a bunch of hours. The grains of rice extract the humidity and the phone is once again in perfect working condition – and cleaner than it was before!
3. No more AM wake up alarm!!!
The third and equally satisfying “lack of” is the missing morning wake up alarm. If there is one noise I really grew to dislike while living in the busy western world, it was the noise of the morning wake up alarm. This ‘wahhh, wahhh wahhh’ (sorry, can’t really recreate the sound in writing) that rocked me out of bed most mornings, propelling me to day full of tasks and to do lists. The funny thing is, I now wake up earlier than I used to, but I wake up gently…. with the sounds of birds and roosters. With the sound of the nearby village coming to life, the cow mooing, the first motos on the road heading to work or the market. You see life gets going here around 5 am. It’s taken a while, but I can finally see why.. and appreciate it, and do the same. The day is still cool, you can watch the sunrise and do some stretching and meditation to get your day started. I wake up before my 3 year old son, and have a bit of time to myself in the morning, before having to focus on getting him awake, fed, dressed and pottyed, before taking him to preschool. Gone is the old annoying alarm sound, in are the sounds of nature and life awaking all around us, getting us up and ready for the day.
Thank you life for being beautiful and giving us all these gifts, sometimes in the form of ‘lack thereof’. The best things come in the most interesting little packages.