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3 things I love about living in Cambodia

elephant riding, Sen Monorom, Mondulkiri, Cambodia travel
Take off your watch, turn off the alarm, forget the mail and go elephant riding instead!

Life here in small town Kampot, Cambodia has been good so far, and I feel very fortunate to live here. The longer we live here the more I love it. There is a way of life that I haven’t found elsewhere, one that seems to really jive with my spirit. These last few days I have found myself thinking about why I really love living here, the small things that make every day awesome. I’ll likely continue to update these as I think of them, but for now here are 3 things that I really appreciate on a daily basis.

1. No more mail!!

Let me explain… I still clearly remember the days when I had to pick up the mail… mostly bills and advertisements.  The moment of joy from mail were definitely outnumbered by the moments of slight annoyance coinciding with receiving bills and feeling the pressure of having to pay for those bills. Not so much because there wasn’t any money to pay for them, more so from the feeling that it was yet another thing in the list of things to do. It felt like life revolved around a series of tasks, the list never ending. Aside from bills, most of the mail was advertisements for all sorts of companies, catalogs and promotional pamphlets. Don’t get me wrong, I like perusing through catalogs, staring at pictures and dreaming with the Ikea catalog in hand as much, or maybe more, than the next person, but I could never quite get over how much paper was being wasted to print all these shiny pictures. Do we really need all these delivered to our mail boxes every day? Has our desire to consume grown so strong that it necessitates all these printed papers to tell us what to buy, where and when?

Living here in Cambodia has drastically cut down on how much of this media I consume. Not to mention the stress that has disappeared once the whole system of bill delivery was eradicated from my life. Now, if we really need to receive something I have it delivered to a general PO box in town. When something arrives (and in the four years we’ve lived here it has only happened 3 times) the nice lady from the post office calls me at home to tell me that there is something waiting, and if I am busy she will send it to my house on a moto taxi for a small fee of 50 cents or so. Oh yes, I should also mention that when I do receive these special packages now, they are always much wanted, as they bring news and small goods from my mom.

2. No more watch wearing!!

It’s true, after wearing a watch for many years, always checking it, living life by the clock, I am thrilled to never wear a watch any more. It seems like life moves at a different pace when everything revolves around the right moment, rather than this ultimate need to hurry from point A to point B. Again, don’t me wrong – I have a job I have to be at. What I don’t have however, is this ubiquitous reminder that I have to do this at such and such a time, and place, that I have to hurry, that I will miss the bus in if don’t make it to the station in two minutes. I have a old skool Nokia cell phone that does the job. Most of the time it’s on silent and I call people back when I have a chance. My life is no longer dictated by how many minutes till the next ‘task’ and by counting down the minutes till I would be late. As a little aside here, this old Nokia phone I have is the best thing in the world. It is resistant to water, as I have found out on numerous occasions when my son has decided to dunk it in water just to see what the light looks like underwater. Phone has gone swimming? Easy.. just take out the battery and leave it in a bag of rice for a bunch of hours. The grains of rice extract the humidity and the phone is once again in perfect working condition – and cleaner than it was before!

3. No more AM wake up alarm!!!

The third and equally satisfying “lack of” is the missing morning wake up alarm. If there is one noise I really grew to dislike while living in the busy western world, it was the noise of the morning wake up alarm. This ‘wahhh, wahhh wahhh’ (sorry, can’t really recreate the sound in writing) that rocked me out of bed most mornings, propelling me to day full of tasks and to do lists. The funny thing is, I now wake up earlier than I used to, but I wake up gently…. with the sounds of birds and roosters. With the sound of the nearby village coming to life, the cow mooing, the first motos on the road heading to work or the market. You see life gets going here around 5 am. It’s taken a while, but I can finally see why.. and appreciate it, and do the same. The day is still cool, you can watch the sunrise and do some stretching and meditation to get your day started. I wake up before my 3 year old son, and have a bit of time to myself in the morning, before having to focus on getting him awake, fed, dressed and pottyed, before taking him to preschool.  Gone is the old annoying alarm sound, in are the sounds of nature and life awaking all around us, getting us up and ready for the day.

Thank you life for being beautiful and giving us all these gifts, sometimes in the form of ‘lack thereof’. The best things come in the most interesting little packages. :-)

Mommy, it’s song time!

Here is a collection of songs for kids found on various websites. Some of the songs have movements to go along with the music and to make it more fun! Keep in mind that kids like action they can do themselves, so for younger kids keep it simple – you know best what your kid can and can’t do! Here is some more advice gathered from around the net for making song time a fun time for everyone.

  • Make activities interesting – sing or talk in big and little voice, faster and slower, softer and louder, add instruments
  • Stop songs in the middle to repeat a hard line or action, talk about the meaning, or for whatever reason necessary to help the child learn it
  • Take the nursery rhymes, finger plays, and songs very slowly at first and wait for the child to do the action before moving on
  • Stop on rhyming words and have the child fill in word
  • Count the number of times a word is in a song, rhyme, or finger play
  • Sing throughout the day – just because the child is not singing out loud with you does not mean they are not singing in their head
  • Make sure the child uses his or her pretty voice to sing – yelling is not singing
  • Sometimes sing the songs or say the rhymes using different voices – high, low, big, small, etc.

 

1-2-3-4-5 Once I Caught a Fish

One, two, three, four five! (count with your fingers)

Once I caught a fish alive; (place palms together to make a swimming fish)

Six, seven, eight, nine, ten. (count with your fingers)

Then I let it go again. (throw hands in the air)

Why did you let it go? (shrug shoulders)

Because it bit my finger so. (one hand bite pinkie finger on right hand)

Which finger did it bite? (shrug shoulders)

This little finger on my right. (wiggle pinkie finger on right hand)

 

 Five Fat Peas

Five fat peas in a pea pod pressed (hold hand in a fist)

One grew, two grew, so did all the rest (put thumb and fingers up one by one)

They grew and grew (raise hands in the air very slowly)

And did not stop, Until one day

The pod went POP! (clap)

 

 Hands and Fingers

Up and down

Round and round (draw circles in the air)

Put your fingers on the ground

Over (hold hands above lap)

Under (move hands below legs)

In between (you’ve hidden your hands in between your legs)

Now my fingers can’t be seen!

Hands in front

Hands behind

Now my hands I cannot find

Here’s my left hand

Here’s my right

Hands and fingers back in sight (wriggle fingers)

 

Happy All the Time

Chorus: (gradually get faster)

I’m inright (point at self)

Outright (point out)

Upright (point up)

Downright (point down)

Happy all the time (clap 3x)

(Repeat)

 

Head and Shoulders, Knees and Toes

Tune: “Mary Had a Little Lamb”

Head and shoulders, knees and toes

Knees and toes (Repeat 2x)

Head and shoulders, knees and toes

Clap your hands together

(Start slow and gradually increase the speed as you sing and do actions)

 

I Use My Brain

(From: 500 Five Minute Games by Jackie Silberg)

I use my brain to think, think, think (touch head)

I use my nose to smell (touch nose)

I use my eyes to blink, blink, blink (touch eyes)

I use my throat to yell (touch throat and yell on word “yell”)

I use my mouth to giggle, giggle, giggle (touch mouth)

I use my hips to bump (touch hips)

I use my toes to wiggle, wiggle, wiggle (touch toes)

And I use my legs to jump (jump)

 

The Itsy Bitsy Spider

The itsy, bitsy spider, climbed up the water spout.

Down came the rain and washed the spider out.

Out came the sun and dried up all the rain,

So the itsy, bitsy spider went up the spout again

 

One, Two Buckle My Shoe

Tune of: Twinkle Twinkle Little Star

One, two, buckle my shoe

Three, four, shut the door

Five, six, pick up sticks

Seven, eight, lay them straight

Nine, ten, it’s time to end

Next time, let’s do it again

 

Right Hand, Left Hand

(Based on a poem from: 500 Five Minute Games by Jackie Silberg)

(Have the child echo each phrase and copy your actions)

This is my right hand (This is my right hand)

I raise it up high (I raise it up high)

This is my left hand (This is my left hand)

I’ll touch the sky (I’ll touch the sky)

Right hand (Right hand)

Left hand (Left hand)

Whirl them around (Whirl them around)

Right hand (Right hand)

Left hand (Left hand)

Pound, pound, pound (Pound, pound, pound)

 

This Little Piggie

This little piggie went to market. (wiggle thumbs)

This little piggie stayed at home. (wiggle index fingers)

This little piggie had roast beef. (wiggle middle fingers)

This little piggie had none. (wiggle ring fingers)

And this little piggie cried “Wee, wee,” all the way home. (wiggle pinky fingers)

 

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, turn around,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, touch the ground.

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, reach up high,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, wink one eye.

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, touch your nose,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, touch your toes.

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, shut the door,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, count to four.

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, climb the stairs,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, say your prayers.

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, turn out the light,

Teddy Bear, Teddy Bear, say goodnight.

 

Where is Thumbkin?

Tune of: Frère Jacques (Are You Sleeping)

Where is thumbkin? (Start with hands behind back)

Where is thumbkin?

Here I am (Bring right thumb to front)

Here I am (Bring left thumb to front)

How are you today sir?

Very well, I thank you (Wiggle thumbs as if they are “talking” to each other)

Run away (Hide right hand behind back)

Run away (Hide left hand behind back)

 Additional verses:

Where is pointer?

Where is tall man?

Where is ring man?

Where is pinkie?

Where is whole family?